I am over-the-moon proud of Tatum.
This week, she is volunteering at VBS, and her job is not just to help in a classroom or pass out snacks. She is a buddy for one special little boy. She shadows him through the morning, helps him move from one activity to the next, watches for what he needs, encourages him, redirects him when things feel overwhelming, and makes sure he feels safe and included. (he is in a wheelchair)
And today, even though there was an adult with her, Tatum really stepped up. The adult was new to the role, so Tatum took the lead in the sweetest, most natural way. She listened, paid attention, learned what helped him feel comfortable, and then just loved him through the morning.
And this is not just me seeing her through mom eyes. Charis, who leads the Sunday special needs ministry where Tatum serves, told her that she is the most mature 13-year-old she has ever worked with …more mature than most adults. And honestly, I believe it. Because when Tatum is in this space, something in her just rises up. She becomes calm, capable, confident, and completely focused on the child in front of her.
When she came home, she was excited and exhausted in that very best way.
I only got this one picture because, of course, she did not want me taking her picture. But I had to capture it anyway.
I love so many things about Tatum, but one of my favorites is her heart for kids who need a little extra help being seen, understood, and included. She does not act scared of differences. She does not pull back. She leans in.
And today, I saw her becoming exactly who God made her to be.
Smart. Capable. Compassionate. Fun. Tender. Strong.
I love you, Tot.