Yesterday, while Coti went to the “spa” to get fluffed and nuttered, Tatum and I went on a play date with her two boyfriends, Robert and Nicholas.
It was just what the Dr. ordered for me, because sometimes, you just need some girlie time! Jennie, Elizabeth, and I shared about mommy foibles, 2-year old “stuff”, school ideas? essential oils being essential, and how to get unplugged (literally). I also got convinced that perhaps 30 minutes or so of structured TV time would not kill Tatum. “Daniel Tiger” (the current Mr. Rogers) and “Thomas and Friends” may fit in somewhere into her day. Still on the fence, but at two, I think a BALANCE is what I am striving for.
Elizabeth gifted Tot with some cleaning supplies since Nicholas had used them to full capacity. Actually, Elizabeth was DONE with a singing vacuum.
SO..she came home and did some housework. The singing vacuum did not bother me because it kept Tot engaged for more than 10 seconds. I then caved, and we did watch Daniel Tiger and learned about problem solving on your own instead of constantly asking for help.
Being around other moms sure helps me because I can first, not feel so alone when I wonder why Tatum may be challenging me now more often, and second, I can discuss what is/is not working and get ideas. Playdates are more for the mommies!