Hay Happens and Hay's Happen

Tatum and I have so much in common. Sadly, I never wanted her to have my microbiome! I finally ordered a stool test for her, and sure enough, she has an overgrowth of candida and way too much negative bacteria. So…..no wonder she feels nauseous daily, lacks any hunger, and often has loose or hard stools. NEVER did I wish this upon her!

Well, she has had to give up gluten and dairy, and with that comes much woe’ing! Oh, woe is me and woe is this and woe is that. Woe Woe Woe to the no no no of almost her whole diet!
Enter ME! Yes, this is my specialty: Take something perhaps unhealthy or “not allowed” and turn it into a masterpiece of deliciousness!

So, daily, we would have ice cream or some cookie, but NOT NOW, she would WOE. Tot, let’s make lemonade out of lemons and make something ok?

Avocado cookies. Wait….WHHHHUUUUUUUUUUT? Yep, they have all delicious ingredients in one morsel of cookieness.

1. Avocado
2. egg
3. cocoa powder
4. dark chocolate chunks
5. coconut sugar ( I substituted allulose ….supposedly a new alternative to stevia which doesn’t affect the microbiome)
6. baking soda.

VOILA!

How do they taste? The batter was way toooooo tasty, so???

They taste even better with coffee. Yes, I give her a bit everyday for fun (foamy coconut/almond milk on top)

Heaven.

Such is life and lessons: Let’s focus on the GOOD; on the YES’s; on the I CAN’s. (and not on the missing tiles) AMEN, SISTER!
We are going to CONQUER these gut issues, girl. I LOVE YOU!

In the meantime, Dr. Ruiz has a P.O.A (plan of attack)

They did such a nice article on us!

She’s doing better every week, and what else? IT’S FUN!
And thanks to my sister – in- law, Dolly, Tot is receiving a plethora of book ideas for reading. XO

And her timed Division!! Getting better DAILY!
She’s so ready for 5th grade. XO

The fun of summer! Each year, it just gets better; I have to admit, she kinda is becoming more of a buddy, but OF COURSE, she’s still my daughter who I will disciple and parent. YES!
But, in the meantime, she and I share everything (and this can be unfortunate because she sees EVERYTHING with me…the suffering included).

This morning, I wanted to surprise her with a little note of love.

It’s so fun to surprise her! Of course, Daddy got in on the fun!

Well, the fun only just began, because when I got home from the gym and the store, this awaited me in the garage door: (I LOVE YOU TO PECIOUS!)…pieces?)

Then she captured me as I walked in, blindfolded me, and took me in the kitchen.

Oh, Woody helped me!

And then in the art room before school, she showed me the secret prize!

I was OVERWHELMED with joy. Then, she made her brekkie of French toast, and also she helped me make dinner for our family.

And what topped it all off? A golf game and GLOW PUTT!

GIRLS! We love each other so very much. She is my total package.

First stop: MOM!
Tatum made her a sweet pic, and we brought her a flag.

Of course, she brought Woody to cheer up mom.

Later that day, Daddy joined us in the pool, and then we did our 4th of July Seder tradition.

First, we discussed the importance of the day and why we celebrate. Freedom from the tyranny of King George, the Pilgrims came here as early as 1620. Then over a century later, others joined and started this country on an IDEA!

We celebrated the fact that the tea was tossed in the Boston Harbor (rebellion against unfair taxes) with some lemonade.

We sign the Declaration of Independence, and then we sing God Bless America.

AMEN.

Land that I love with the family whom I love.

As we all know, since Tatum was a wee one, we have read out loud for at least 30 minutes per night. Not much has changed now that she is almost ahem…$%&$ ELEVEN! Egads.

Well, we decided to pull out the blog books from the beginning to read nightly…like novels!

Wow. I have so much more “writing” in each book which I so appreciate. We are having a blast remembering. We just published the 21st book. (swallowing hard)

Reviewing these memories together, she can see that from (before even) DAY 1, she has been A.D.O.R.E.D. I had made a promise that every single day she’d be reminded how truly loved she is. I have never let that go! Daily, she is reminded she is a GIFT. A BLESSING.

When you turn 18, Tot, you’ll receive the whole 36 book set. It’s going too fast!

I will say that one thing that we have seen is that she has had digestive issues since day one. Just like her mommy. (again, swallowing hard.) I never wished this upon her, and now we share this malady. Oh, dear Jesus, that you would heal us both of this.

I love you dear Tatum; I’m so grateful that I decided to leave full time teaching so I could walk alongside you in this life.

I’ll always have your back, dearest one.

We are good together, kiddo!

It all started with her NEW planner!

Yes, where do you think she gets this!?

Hmmmmmm

Well, now she is motivated to make money for the Children’s Hospital and buying teddy bears. She decided to make bracelets. She’s been going around the neighborhood and taking orders.

And she’s already made $30! She makes them to order.

Stay tuned!