Hay Happens and Hay's Happen

This year, we made “Paw”titudes. These are what we are grateful for on little paws.

Then, later that day, not only did we get to go to Doug’s house for a Thanksgiving celebration, but we stretched out Tot’s birthday too.

Doug had been working for three days straight on getting his house ready, and preparing dinner. He works so hard! But, it’s so worth it to make all feel welcome. His two brothers, Rick and Craig (with their wives, Kim and Terri) came. His mom, Darlene, spent some time talking to my mom.

Then, Andy, Craig’s son, captured Tatum’s heart. Actually, I think she captured his heart. They hung out poking each other.

He was a great sport playing ponies with her. Craig’s family kindly bought Tatum this gift. SO kind!

Turkey, all 23 lbs of it, was  finally ready.

Delicious. It was unseasonably warm, so we got to sit outside!! Doug has a beautiful gazebo out back on his patio. We joined Craig’s kids, Bethany, her hubby Ryan, Andy, and Stephanie.

Tatum then enjoyed playing with her new toys from Doug, but WHAT could it be!?

 

Fun cars and signs to add to the mega carpet. And better yet, Paw Patrol!

She played for a while, but honestly, she was more interested in being with the adults.

Dessert too, I think helped..haha

She had a bit of pumpkin, pecan, and chocolate cake with ice cream. We all got sugared up! You can never have too much whipped cream, right?
Well, the piece de resistance was Austin coming home, and he even brought Tot a birthday present.

A Paw Patrol (Marshal) soap!
Thank you, Austin!!!

Then thank you rides had to start with Craig of course.

Then a final goodbye to Bethany.

We had so much fun!

She continued playing into the wee hours.

Thank you Doug dear! XO

Tatum actually slept a bit late on Wednesday, so I climbed in her bed for a snuggle or two. She, being five now, is still fond of this, and I reminded her that at five, she must give and receive up to TEN hugs a day. She was fine with that.
I decided I’d sprinkle gifts to her through the day since we had the whole day together. She knew I had a BIG surprise for her in the evening.

So I had her go into her closet to retrieve her tennies, and BOOM!

New shoes!!!

We are all set to go (notice the crown…she got this yesterday and still is wearing it)

The day began with the usual…gym, errands of which one was Trader Joe’s. She’s been going there so long that she was told that she could pick out anything in the store for her birthday. Seriously! What would she pick?

Yes, not your everyday Oreo but Joe-Joe’s. Vanilla sandwich cookies. Elated, she had one for her snack.

Next stop, home for a craft. I had a little surprise for her here too.

Pop beads are all the rage. Haven’t you heard?

Now, later, it was time for some fashion designing. This is the coolest toy. It’s a mini mannequin (with no head to Tatum’s chagrin) which you design with fabric.

This plastic body instantly came alive as she imagined and created it into different scenarios. (with new clothes of course)

It was getting closer to Doug coming by to open some more gifts and for the surprise.

We waited for Mama to come up and enjoy the opening. We all waited patiently. (with Coti of course)

Doug began with a cool woodworking kit. They can build things together. Very Doug and Tatum loves the together time!

Because here in AZ you can wear boots for about a minute, I got her boots!

Yes, thanks mommy.

We are up to nine hugs!

Now, we are in for a few more fun gifts. A light for her head because she loves to read in bed. And this dinosaur light roars.

And since we are all about things that light up, she got an Avenger watch which I had to set.

Coti was reallllllly wanting some attention.

Ok, now it’s time for Mama to give Tot her present. Coti watched patiently still.

So pretty! Now, what do we do with a pretty dress like this!!???????? Well, here’s the surprise.

Tatum, you are invited to dine with us at Fleming’s. Yes, steak, shrimp, fancy schmancy food. You in, Tot?????

I got the tenth hug.

We got our pretty clothes on and smiled pretty.

And we headed out to our Fleming’s reservation.

She enjoyed a non-fizzy Shirley Temple and we all had a fun drink too.

There was a lot of waiting which I told her is part of fancy restaurants. So you make the best of it, right?

We sit. And we wait. And we wait.

But, the conversation flowed and we all had a wonderful time. She’ll never forget her shrimp and delicious steak. Doug and Mama shared much of their filet.

She was so sleeeeepy, that when we got home, she collapsed.

It was an unforgettable day, Tatum. I love you beyond measure, love bug.
P.S. I got more than ten hugs.

We already had the birthday party for the Tot. But, the real McCoy is on Wednesday. She did not have school on Wednesday, so on Tuesday, the school did not only have their Thanksgiving feast, but they celebrated Tatum’s bday.

She happened to be the snack server today, so she was hard at work serving the water to each kiddo.

I surprised her with some cupcakes, and they surprised her with a serenade from Ms. Donna!

She also got to have a birthday crown, which she wore ALL DAY and then the next!

Her friends made her a birthday book!

Stay tuned to hear about the birthday celebration on Wednesday!

I’m not going to let her turn 5 yet. But, we’ll celebrate anyway. Her real birthday     is on November 22nd, but we got ahead of the festivities with family and friends at the train park on Friday the 17th. I had asked Tatum what theme she wanted and she had one word:

DOGS

Well, ok then. Let’s make it “Paw”ty! That meant paw and doggie everything. Paw pads, paw stamps, paw pencils (these were party gifts)

Ok, back to the start. Mom bought her a Paw Patrol shirt for the party.  Paw Patrol became more of the theme. 

I headed over early to set up with Bianca’s (her sitter) help. Doug dropped off the PAW balloons (25 of these babies….blown up thanks to Dougie!)

All started coming about 4, but right before, Tot, mom and Doug showed up with cake in hand. Mom made (from scratch!)  the cutest cake with Paw Patrol Rings all around. 

Tatum took off to play with her buddies and we all just hung at the Ramada.

She did come back for a snack or two,

but she was more interested in playing with her friends from school, Alice, Carly, and Chloe. Ethan, Jack, Vivian, and Adrianna joined us. A few of my friends came to celebrate too.

Finally, it was time to cut the cake!

Hi Susan!

and Shannon! (with Vivi)Hi Kyle!

My favorite mom!

My favorite guy..

My sweet Tot.. I can’t get enough of you.

It was time to have a little train time. Cana took our pic (thanks Cana!) I just realized she is not in any pics. OOPS!

We headed home to open gifts and figure out the system for organizing them (that’s my OCD showing)

Wow. It only has just begun. There will be more to come on Wednesday. I’m so grateful to our family and friends. We love you little Tatum Tot!!!

 

 

Every Sunday, my dear mother tries to get us all to wear the same colors.

Par Example:

Well, this Sunday, Tot and I wore our pretty burgundy, and mom did not even go. (She broke her toe! Sad face) So Tot and I took our pics and posed in front of the almost decorated Christmas tree. We missed mom.

First Tot…

Then add me!

We then  thought of the fun we are going to have this week with her birthday!

Then, when we got to church to meet Doug, he was wearing a matching shirt. Awwwwww…isn’t that the cutest…yeah mommy, whatever!

 

 

Yes, whatever!

Happy Sunday! (The last Sunday of the 4’s) Happy/Sad face. 

Saturday, we had the blessing of joining Tatum’s friend Carly for her birthday party. They had a petting zoo in their front driveway for the celebration. Yes. Seriously.
Tatum had NO desire to visit the six goats,  three chickens, three ducks a waddling, or two bunnies. Based on her past experience in petting zoos, I wasn’t surprised, but I tried to get her in there!

It took her little buddy, Caleb (from her Kinder class), to drag her in there and hand her a chicken. 

Next thing you know it, she’s all over the bunnies!

See mom!!!

I did not enter since it was for the kiddos, but this goat did want to be with me. He was not interested in what was going inside the pen, but instead, what was going on outside.

Say Cheese!

This innocent little stool looks all white and cute.

But did you know it has an evil side?

It closes and opens and ……

when you’re daughter is holding it, you should probably let her have it.

It decided to eat her finger.

This caused much screaming followed by crying. She cried too.

I’m so sorry love bug. It will feel better.