Tuesday was taken this week with my presentation on ZOOM for GCU. So, we had to move our ‘Two Girls Two”sday to Wednesday.
Again, I surprised Tatum, so she wanted to dress up for me. I decided to make her feel ultra-special by wearing a dress myself. With the quarantine, it’s been easy to look schlumpy everyday.
First stop: Pedicures before school starting!
They were quite busy, but we enjoyed our comfy pedi chairs while we watched HGTV Property Brothers. It made us excited to move into our home.
We decided on GCU purple (more like lavender). You like our toes?
Voila!
Now we headed over to Chompie’s for a quick bite.
Oh, isn’t she just beautiful?
I offered her a cookie or a bagel with cream cheese. Scooped and toasted of course!
She picked the blueberry bagel.
We played “questions.” Basically we each get to ask anything to each other, taking turns. We mostly talked about school coming up and what excites her/scares her the most. We tried to get all our concerns out so we could discuss them before school begins. It was a very fruitful discussion. (as usual!)
We also laughed our pretty new toes off! We so enjoy each other being together.
OH, he did it again. He outdid himself. Yes, my HHH planned to celebrate my birthday around May, but with the quarantine, we couldn’t really go anywhere.
The Sanctuary is a high-end, classy, beautiful hotel tucked away in the Camelback mountains. Doug found us a fancy suite back in February because in the summer, the rates are about 1/2 the price. So going in July was smart! Also, the restaurant, The Elements, is beyond delicious. (He took me there for my birthday five years ago when we were dating).
Mama agreed to watch Tatum, so she made Mama a lovely little picture to say THANK YOU.
Doug and I were then off! When we arrived, our room wasn’t quite ready so we just waited in the bar with a view of the mountains.
Then when we got to the room, they welcomed us with a few cookies, some champagne flutes and a nice card for me. I felt like royalty!
We didn’t have much downtime because we had dinner reservations at 6:30, so we immediately got all gussied up. I wore the same dress I wore there five years ago, but I had it shortened for my hubby. Thought he’d like that!
My HHH looked so dapper! I had to take a couple shots. He is relaxed, and for that, I’m grateful!
Ok, we walked a whole three minutes to get to our destination. Love that because it is 114 degrees out right now. Yikes!
Don’t we look so cute?
Now, can you believe that FIVE years ago, this was us? I think we look a lot better together now! Well, that is about 30 lbs difference for the honey. (His heart grew and his body shrunk…that’s a deal!)
We ordered an appetizer consisting of count them……Yes, 4 prawns. But they were SCRUMPTIOUS!
Our salads were also amazing. Wedges with bacon, tomato and for honey, blue cheese.
Now, what did we talk about? We brought some fun questions to go DEEP with each other, and they did not disappoint. We had such fun conversation and at times, pretty intimate. I loved it!!
Before we ate, he surprised me with the sweetest card.
WOW.
I’m blessed.
I’m even more blessed when my salmon came out. It delightfully sat upon a bed of broccoli. I have to admit, though, Doug’s filet looked mouth watering.
Oh, yes. Now we are talking! Later, Beau MacMillan, the chef, came out to welcome us back. Check this out.
This was five years ago:
Tonight, he invited us back for a tasting menu. OK, twist my arm.
The rest of the night, we enjoyed being together alone in the room. It was such a joy.
We have come a long way in five years.
THEN:
NOW! Two lovebirds.
I love you, HHH. Doing life together forever with my best friend.
I used to basically live in her bedroom. She’d play play play and I’d work work work; draw draw draw. Whatever we did, we loved hanging in her bedroom when we lived at mom’s. Well, today, Tatum suggested I work in her bedroom. How do you think it went?
Well, the real test was Coopy. Would he lay there and lick my laptop or my leg or the bed or what not…. Nope! He did just fine.
Tatum had insisted on us wearing our matching overalls.
We always have to start with some type of treat, so today did not disappoint with little chippers.
It was definitely one of my favorite days because we always have a rich conversation. Today, we talked about our emotions. Tatum FEELS everything. Often our feelings can control our day, but if we can name the feeling, discuss it, then give it to God, we can not let the feeling be in charge of US. A simple feeling of frustration can escalate to more frustration to anger and then KABOOM. If at the genesis of the frustration, we can talk about it/deal with it, then it doesn’t have the power over us.
Now, back to the cookies!
Later, we were to meet my friend Cana and her son Ethan at As You Wish to paint! I wanted to make Tatum a plate to commemorate her adoption and to have her mission statement right there for her to always see.
Here is the “BEFORE.” I’ll pick it up after it’s been through the kiln.
Tatum accepted Jesus as her Lord and Savior on July 27th, 2018. How did I know this? It was early July of this year, and Tatum asked me when at 5 she accepted Jesus? When did she make that choice? I told her I couldn’t remember exactly the day.
Then, I happened to look it up in the blog, and BOOM. There it was on my first click in 2018. July 27th. It was way too coincidental. So, we decided to celebrate it on that day this year.
Doug bought her the sweetest card and a key from HIS heart. What a beautiful card!
More gifts now….We are so into Nancy Drew as I was when I was a kid. Apparently, Nancy Drew has some more current books (The Clue Crew books where she is only 8 or 9 not 18).
I am more of a classic Drew girl. We are enjoying them.
Oh yes, the card!
And the piece de resistance!
I love you, Tot. May you follow HIM and Love HIM more than you ever love this world. As His disciple, may you learn and grow in His LOVE.
Sandrine lives in Rwanda, and she dreams of being a nurse one day. Tatum wanted to draw her some bears and give her a hug! The bear apparently likes bananas which is a staple food in Rwanda.
Tatum and I decided to write a sequel since we were studying fairy tales this summer.
We worked on our rough draft and ideated for weeks. Man, we couldn’t come up with a theme, but we landed on the challenge of temptation. We had been studying this term in the Bible (and if experienced in our lives!) and had read many verses about staying focused on Christ and having wisdom with decisions/discernment.
Here are our notes and our dialogue. We had to plan out each page. (The parenthesis means we don’t write that but draw it).
Ok, we are ready to create the book. Coming up with a title was the last hurdle, but more on that later.
We wanted Piggie to be tempted by a “villian” since a fairy tale has this feature. He was warned by a “curious bird,” and then was tempted by the villain. The reader has to guess what will happen (and root for Piggie to make the wise choice).
We chose “Bait ‘n’ Surf” for our title as a play on Bait and Switch. Piggie is being baited and then gets to surf.
COVER:
Now the first couple pages:
Ok, now for the curious bird who approaches with a WARNING. All fairy tales have this!
Puppy returns.
And the villian now is introduced. (We love Petey the Cat in the Dogman books, so thanks to Dav Pilkey for this).
Hmmmm…..pink magic? Sounds fishy. The reader is worried. Piggie!! Don’t listen to him!
He is faced with a choice. We all face temptation daily, and how do we choose what is right?
(Well, Tot and I turn to prayer and the Holy Spirit speaks to us, but we kept this part out). The reader now is to wonder, what color is he using as he surfs against gorilla!??
Aaahhhh, good choice, Piggie. (as he holds up his blue ribbon and the bird is giving a thumbs up. Petey is disturbed).
And our tag line of “The End.”
What fun. We had a blast making our book. Now we are ready for our next book. Oh, the work never ends for us authors. HEE!
