Yes, Birthdays in our house are a multi-day event. So, part one of Doug’s birthday took place with a complete surprise up our sleeves. I had told him that he needed to be available from Friday around 3pm to Saturday around 9am. We’d all go away. (wink wink).
We left the house at 3:15 and I told him we had to stop at my mom’s. He had no idea what was about to take place.
When we got there, my mom gave him a task and then we all met in the kitchen. I gave him this card:
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He and I would go to Flemings for dinner and then stay the night at the Hilton (for dessert…heh). Tot would stay at Mom’s. He was sideswiped!
All of a sudden, his relaxation quotient flew to outrageous levels.
We had a little champagne on our patio and relaxed before getting ready. (It was a tad chilly out there!)
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We got ready, and oh, doesn’t he look fabulous?
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And me… He wanted me to pole it.
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We sauntered over to our destination. So nice not to drive!
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It is so nice to be out to celebrate. We forgot our masks, so they let us have a couple before sitting down.
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Then it was a lovely dinner of ahi appetizer, filet, salads and some wine. We had a list of fun questions to ask each other, so we ended up staying for a while and chatting. How refreshing!
Happy Birthday to you, baby!
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Back to the room for some dessert. Long overdue!
More to come, honey. (Thank you so much mom for hanging with the Tot and making this possible).