Who let the dogs out!?

Tatum! They are living on the bed in a pack.

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She was trying to figure out the names of all her dogs, because, well, that’s what girls do. They name things.
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So she discussed it with me, and one of the dogs ended up with the name, “Neighborhood.” OK. IMG_2198IMG_2199

It’s a good thing I named Bella. You know that? (As Tatum would say)

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Family value

So this makes me smile. Why? Because 2016 is becoming a year of family. Doug and I have talked about having more time with our families and friends as an “us.” UNITED. I sure love that. This picture has that written all over it. It’s so foreign to both of us (Doug and me) to have this cohesiveness as a unit, but we are going to learn and grow together as to what that looks like. Tatum and I appreciate this guy so very much. He is dependable, loyal, wise, loving, kind, and just adorable. He keeps me grounded as Tatum’s mom, as a daughter, as a woman, and as a friend. 20160103_142840c 2Valued.

Firsts can be hard

They may be hard, but that is how we grow. How else can we become better if we don’t face our fears head on!?
7:06 Monday morning, January 4th. Tatum wakes me up, and I remember it is her FIRST DAY OF PRESCHOOL! Today!!! It has arrived. I know that I need to allow plenty of time for the usual tangents of the morning. Things don’t always go as planned with a three year old. Ok, with really any age, right?

She wanted to play with some Scrabble toys, pretending that they were ice cream cones. With that, she wanted to bring them to school. First “discussion” of the day. “Tatum, you can have them at home, but not at school. We will get dressed now.” Oops, I should have given her a choice to avoid anymore discussions! This caused a “moment” so I had to escape the premises for a few to let her calm down.

Finally after minutes of calming down, we arrived at the outfit and the teeth being brushed. Devotion, prayer and we have it. Success. Now, we have thirty minutes for a good breakfast. I was hoping to make her something special. She first wanted hugs and kisses because she knew she had been a bit difficult and was sad.
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French toast, banana, milk and a few more hugs and kisses. Off to school.
What do I say in the car? Lecture her about listening to her teachers? Being kind? Sharing? To not poke people? Nope. I just tell her that I love her and I’m proud of her. IMG_2186I walked in and looked at Jerry, and said, “Can I have a hug?” I’m balling by now. Tot grabs my leg and I assure her I’m OK. We walk to her classroom, and she seems pretty happy. Where is Robert? He is late, so we end up chatting with Miss Jennie the teacher. I’m calming down, and Tatum takes off to play with toys. Not kids yet. She will get there.

I leave and realize…I’m OK. Coincidentally (ha), I ran into Pastor Tom at the gym right after and he tells me it’s a right of passage. It’s all good. Jennie, Doug, Gina, and Daisy all text me to tell me this, and I feel the presence of God. He sent all these angels to me today to remind me each “FIRST” is a growing opportunity.

Jennie texted me and told me that when Robert saw Tatum it was a sweet as thick syrup.

According to Miss Jenn and Miss Terri, you were a star! Kind, obedient, and fun. Hooray!

Ode to Tatum 2016

We say good bye to year five

of decade 2010

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Tatum you’re three

And for me, it came

and did just flee

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So what can I do but

Embrace the YOU

Of who you are meant to beIMG_1648

I see in you a spark or two

And actually a mill”EE”on

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The sparks I say are not the kind

That extinguish that easily!

They are the contagious kind

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That others find

so absolutely

Genuine

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Because what I see is that you

Bring out in me

And in everyone..

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Loving, laughing

Energy-catching

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The time we spend

Days upon end

I treasure for truly

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The books we read

The letters we make

The songs we sing

The stories we create

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It’s all I can do but to

Thank dear God through and through

For blessing me

With you dear T. A. T. U. M


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Happy New Year 2016

WESTON!

Tot has a new brother in law. Ok, so if she married Robert, Weston David Love would be!


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It did not take but two minutes for her to want to hold this bundle of two week-old joy. Jennie had her C-section on December 15, 2015, just in time for Christmas! Her present was this adorable little guy

We went over to visit and to bring her some dinner. I ended up holding him for about two hours, but Tot got a quick turn. She is a natural nurturer.

We love you,  LOVE FAMILY!  (And Robert, hang in there! You may not be the center of attention anymore, but you still have Tatum’s eye.